Author Archives: Avitable

My original wedding website, aka The One With The Invitation #FRIENDSPC

Our wedding invitations, sent out in early 2001, were very formal, with the exception of a website address at the very bottom.  It was a concession that I insisted on, even though wedding websites were not yet the norm. I … Continue reading

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My gay ol’ time in San Francisco

The first sign that I might be addicted to technology was when I assessed everything that I was packing for my three-night trip to San Francisco.  Why did I think that I would need a laptop, corded mouse, two separate … Continue reading

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The One Where I Cheat On A Meme #FRIENDSPC

My great-grandfather was always old.  Even when I would ride my bike to his condo, and he would drive us to the mall so I could play at the arcade, he was wrinkled and gray.  Born in the beginning of … Continue reading

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San Franvitable

The last time I went to San Francisco was with Amy for one of our anniversaries while we lived in LA.  We drove up, spent three days in Napa Valley, a day in San Francisco, and then traveled south to … Continue reading

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The One With Monica’s Boots #FRIENDSPC

I’ve never seen the need for too many pairs of shoes.  All I have is one pair of dress shoes, one pair of sneakers, one pair of high-tops (are they still called that?), and one pair of sandals.  I walk … Continue reading

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The One With All The Coffee #FRIENDSPC

My dad, reading the paper, talking to me about the funny pages, holding his cup up to his lips, perpetually trying to sip while I asked him questions.   My principal, sneaking behind us in line, pouncing on those who … Continue reading

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A meme I can support

Photo-a-day challenges can be a fun way to spur some creativity, and recently I’ve been so busy that I haven’t been blogging, or even creating, with the frequency that I like to.  Starting tomorrow, February 1st, I’m going to start … Continue reading

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I’m 35 today. I think it’s time to stop counting birthdays.

(psst – here’s the original)

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The life lessons I’ve learned.

On Thursday, I turn 35.  (It’s not too late for you to buy me a present either.) It’s not really a milestone, except that I will no longer be in that vaunted 18-34 age demographic.  There’s nothing special you can … Continue reading

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A letter to my 17-year old self

This isn’t the first time I’ve written a letter to my younger self,  but after seeing the letter written by my friend (and awesome comedienne) Lauren Brown, I decided to do another one. Dear 17-year old Avitable, On Thursday, I’ll … Continue reading

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