Posts Tagged ‘honesty’

Ten Honest Things About Me

Thursday, February 12th, 2009

Dave did a post where he was rehashing a meme called "Ten Honest Things About Me". I've already listed more than 100 things about me that are honest and interesting and weird, but I thought I'd see if I can come up with ten more:

1. When I was in high school, I listened to Rush Limbaugh. After I went to college and started thinking for myself, I realized that he was just as big a buffoon as Howard Stern is.

2. I didn't swear in front of my parents until I was in my mid-twenties. While my parents swear without a problem, I've only heard my dad say "fuck" once when he was really pissed at me and my mother say it once when it was integral to a joke she wanted me to hear.

3. I think some semblance of class structure is good for the world.

4. If I had to pick one hobby or past time that I had to choose and could do only that one activity forever, I would pick reading over anything else.

5. I write complaint letters to companies who have done a bad job for me, and I expect my opinion to matter.

6. I used to be a very angry person and in college I went through a phase where I felt complete apathy for everyone and everything. When I came out of that phase, I no longer got mad at people. Even now, I almost never lose my temper. (It's how I'm still friends with Britt!)

7. When I need to think about something, I'll usually pull up some type of strategy or puzzle game online and do that for hours.

8. The only person whose death I truly mourned was William M. Gaines, who died when I was 15.

9. I've only been in one physical fight in my life, and I lost. It was two on one when I was in the eighth grade and they were older and I never had a chance. As I grew older and larger and meaner and scarier, things changed. There were opportunities when a fight might happen, but the person backed down instead. I much prefer the latter memories.

10. I'm not really frightened of anything. I have a few phobias, but anything that I have the conscious ability to control doesn't scare me.


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Seeing myself through your eyes.

Thursday, November 13th, 2008

A few days ago, Neil from Citizen of the Month had a post asking how his readers perceived him. I had no problem giving him my honest opinion, even if it didn't mince words. The next day, Britt and I talked about the importance of someone else's opinion of you. Britt knows her own worth and would prefer never to know someone's opinion of her, while I would rather know what everyone is thinking at all times. We're a bit diametrically opposed on that issue.

I've been thinking about that, and decided to bring out the good old Johari and Nohari windows. If you don't know what they are, it's pretty simple. In the Johari window, I've chosen the five or six positive attributes of myself that I think are the strongest. In the Nohari window, it's the negative attributes I've chosen.

All you have to do is go to each one, select my attributes that you think are the strongest, put your name and save them, and it shows how closely my opinion of myself mirrors yours.

Don't worry about hurting my feelings – this is an exercise in honesty. It won't hurt me in the slightest to see your true, honest feelings.

Ready? Here you go:

Positive Attributes: Go fill out my Johari Window (opens in a new window)

Negative Attributes: Go fill out my Nohari window (opens in a new window)

How do you feel? Would you prefer to know what people think of you, or do you prefer being ignorant of that?


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Image is key.

Wednesday, June 6th, 2007

So, during a conversation with a couple of whores, I was told that I am very careful to use my blog to display a certain image, and that much of my true self never comes out online. And at first I resisted, trying to explain to these clearly retarded individuals that I am mean and snarky. I do hate people who aren't my friends. And while I am nice and try to be considerate to those few people that I've determined deserve my affection and attention, I do honestly feel that the rest of the world can suck my testicles. However, I also realized that maybe the girls had a point. Maybe they're actually gorgeous, sexy geniuses.

So, after some thought, I decided to use my magical artistic ability to illustrate the difference between the image I project, and the reality of my life.

First, here is the image of myself I project with my blog. You can click for a larger version.

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and, behind the fold, you can see the reality of my life.
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